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Apr. 22nd, 2005 10:30 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
grim23OK. It has been pointed out that my journal has become, "that place where [I] go to convalesce by having the majority of your posting community fawn all over [me], tend to [my] wounds, stroke [my] ego and tell [me] what [I] want to hear"... but, as my broccoli friends point out, what would be the fun in that?
Right now, I'm about learning, especially about the not-so-pleasant aspects of me. I need to learn about how to interact with others better and deal with how people really think and feel about me. Honesty, not fawning. Community forum. No filters.
I've just posted a snapshot personality test, and my astrology chart, giving ample suggestions for ways I do and do not work within the Universe, not to discount your own experiences. Apparently there are those who do not feel comfortable in other forums, so...here it is. Fire away, both barrels. I will not judge you, or even reply, other than to say thank you for the input, unless you request it. I will consider everything that's written, and try to incorporate it into my future Life.
Thank you for your time.
Right now, I'm about learning, especially about the not-so-pleasant aspects of me. I need to learn about how to interact with others better and deal with how people really think and feel about me. Honesty, not fawning. Community forum. No filters.
I've just posted a snapshot personality test, and my astrology chart, giving ample suggestions for ways I do and do not work within the Universe, not to discount your own experiences. Apparently there are those who do not feel comfortable in other forums, so...here it is. Fire away, both barrels. I will not judge you, or even reply, other than to say thank you for the input, unless you request it. I will consider everything that's written, and try to incorporate it into my future Life.
Thank you for your time.
Re: Furious… Fuming… and Disgusted…
Date: 2005-04-25 05:51 pm (UTC)I have privately attempted to discuss with Grim the issues I have with his behavior more times than I can count in the years I've known him. None of my concerns were ever addressed in any way, shape, or form. Nothing was ever his fault -- is was the fault of the chaos which he conveniently allows to run his life so that he does not have to take responsibility for himself, his choices, his actions or inactions. It is for this reason that he no longer plays an active role in my life although there will always be a place for him in my heart.
From my perspective, until he is confronted en masse by all those who care about him but dislike aspects of his behavior, Grim will not make any changes.
Re: Just to Keep Things Straight...
Date: 2005-04-25 07:03 pm (UTC)Didn't want anyone to get confused :-)
AnonyMoose the First
Head is swimming
Date: 2005-04-25 09:31 pm (UTC)Re: Head is swimming
Date: 2005-04-25 09:49 pm (UTC)I do not have an LJ account and I am relatively certain that I do not know any of the other posters, save one. I am also fairly certain that Grim knows who I am based on the comments I made and the way I phrased them. He's heard them before... I see no reason for the rest of you to know my name since none of you know me and after all, these comments are for Grim and his personal growth, yes?
But...if you need a name, call me Aria.
Re: Head is swimming
Date: 2005-04-25 09:56 pm (UTC)Re: Head is swimming
Date: 2005-04-25 10:10 pm (UTC)No. I have made three previous posts (now four including this one): the three signed Aria and the one timestamped 17:51.
The ones made earlier belong to AnonyMoose the First.
Aria
Re: Head is swimming
Date: 2005-04-25 10:14 pm (UTC)